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David Francis's avatar

This was such an eye-opener. I didn’t realize there were so many kinds of intimacy. Each one matters in its own way, and having a good understanding of all 10 really makes a difference. I truly appreciate the thought and depth you put into this.

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Mike Sansone's avatar

Hi David:-) Thank you for your kind words and wonderful feedback. I probably missed a few, too. I appreciate your input and valuable visit!

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David Francis's avatar

You're welcome, Mike! I really appreciate your insights.

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The Human Playbook's avatar

Thanks for writing this piece …

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Mike Sansone's avatar

Hi :-). With pleasure (and privilege). Thank you for reading and your good feedback!

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Will Schmidt's avatar

#9... so important for me early in my marriage. I attempted to avoid conflict rather than using it for growth and intimacy. Another great read, Mike! Best of luck navigating in the metro areas during your travels.

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Mike Sansone's avatar

Hi Will :-). Nice! No. 9 is such a key in building and strengthening a partnership. When conflict can lead to a deeper connection, you've got something special. It's almost as the topic is a shared opponent. Thank you for your kind words, gentle visits, and getting me through Portland at 5 PM. Wowza!

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VedicSoul's avatar

You captured how intimacy is a multifaceted gem & much more than just physical closeness.

I appreciate 'conflict intimacy' and 'financial intimacy'; those are often overlooked but absolutely vital for deep, resilient connections.

Insightful and a good read.

Thank you 🙏🙏

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Mike Sansone's avatar

Hi :-). Thank you for your kind words and cool choices! You're right, those two types of intimacy or deep and strengthening. Thank you for your visit and viewpoints!

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Danni Levy's avatar

Mike, once again I find myself incredibly in alignment with your words and this topic. Every type of intimacy you named is equally fundamental in creating healthy, sustainable relationships ( including with oneself). I believe this is what is missing (what we are intentionally being conditioned to not think about or cultivate) in our lives. Kids are not learning this at all. What a horrifying problem for society. Families can only survive (thrive) when intimacy is placed at first priority. This is why my family becomes more and more united despite all the instability and challenges we have and continue to face. Thank you Mike. Another really important piece. xo

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Mike Sansone's avatar

Hi Danni :-). I love how you connect and thrive within your family by (in part) using a variety of intimacies as cornerstones of your family dynamics and relationships! Strong and vibrant! Thank you!

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